Look at the article above. Read it slowly. See the hint? I will give several links: https://iluvbingjcsbride.blogspot.com/2015/12/willingness-to-forgive-and-power-of-our.html, https://iluvbingjcsbride.blogspot.com/2016/04/peace-and-revival-do-these-two-really.html, https://iluvbingjcsbride.blogspot.com/2016/06/hope-and-encouragement-how-to-read.html.
Yes, we get hurt by what other church members may say but if you read Matthew 18:15-19: https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+18%3A15-19&version=NIV You will discover something beautiful: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FdfEQRXacwY, https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wLikOq_ESr8, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=flEV7WCb9EA&app=desktop, watch.
So what are you waiting for? Love on each other! Sit at the Table TOGETHER and agree with one another in prayer no matter the issue.